What is it? A coping skills toolbox is a place for you to keep things that calm you down in periods of distress. If you have everything gathered in one place it’s easier to remember to use your coping skills, rather than using negative behaviors.
Comforting yourself through your five senses.
1. Something to touch
a. (ex. Stuffed animal, stress ball)
2. Something to hear
a. (ex. Music, meditation guides)
3. Something to see
a. (ex. Snowglobe, happy pictures)
4. Something to taste
a. (ex. Mints, tea, gum)
5. Something to smell
a. (ex. Lotion, candles, perfume)
Taking your mind off the problem for a while
Examples: puzzles, books, artwork, crafts, knitting, crocheting, sewing, crossword puzzles, Sudoku, positive websites, music, movies, etc.
doing something the opposite of your impulse that’s consistent with a more positive emotion.
1. Affirmations and Inspiriation
a. (ex. Looking at or drawing motivational statements or images)
2. Something funny or cheering
a. (ex. Funny movies/TV/books)
tools for identifying and expressing your feelings
Ex. A list or chart of emotions, a journal, writing supplies, drawing/art supplies
tools for centering and grounding yourself in the present moment
Ex. Meditation or relaxation recordings, grounding objects (stone, paperweight, sand), yoga mat, breathing exercises.
contact info of supports and resources, for when coping skills aren’t enough.
Family/frinds, therapist, psychiatrist, hotline, 911
PUT IT ALL TOGETHER
Once you’ve gather all of your items, put them together in a box or other container, decorate it to your hearts content, and put it in a place where you’ll remember it. then USE IT!